Have faith in the stars above..

What is it like to grow up in a world on your own? To have to make the difficult decisions in life on your own and having to face the hardest times on your own, how does it feel?

And when you grow old and wise because of what you had to go through would you help others? Would you guide them in what is best and why? Yes, you would.

But what if they’re not ready for all the change? What if they’re still just too young? It would be really good for everyone or most people to realise certain things sooner because it will help them later in life but what if they’re not ready even though they are desperately in need of change?

As you grow up and grow older you start to notice what is more important. Yes at a certain age you think one thing is important but when you grow older that certain thing that is important might change to something complete opposite. Its normal for your mind to change and its normal for you to be afraid because change can be very nerve wrecking.

Growing up Alice had always believed in fairytales. All the stories that she’s heard, all the happy endings in movies, that’s what she had grown up with. So as she is only twenty she feels that love is all you need. If you have love then anything is possible, love will solve any issue that comes her way. But wanting to change to be a better person she has no choice but to learn it the hard way, to be pushed by the one she loves and having to cry every time she feels as if she isn’t improving when in reality she is slowing becoming better.

Having to be pushed so that she would learn she realises that there is so much more to life then just surviving. You require good compatibility with those around you and when in a relationship commitment is not enough. You must have the same goals and only time will tell whether the two is compatible.

Alice is easily persuaded but she loves with all of her heart. No matter what she does if she has her mind set on it then she will do it with all her heart.

She is young and I know that you want her to be sure of her choices in life and find herself but give her time and support her, you can see that she is slowly getting better and she is realising more and more every time. All I ask is that you love her and care for her, but at the end of the day the choice is up to you. No matter how much she loves you and no matter how much more she does for you then you do for her, she will do so much for you because she loves you. Love might not be at the top of your ‘what matters’ list but it is on top of hers. Try to understand that she cannot let go of it so easily.

~May.